February 2014 | |
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To answer this question for yourself, I encourage you to take a moment in your busy day to quiet your mind, relax and ask your higher self some important questions. When you ask these questions have a pen and notebook with you so you can write down the answers you hear:
What is a soul mate? |
Soul mates provide you with support, encouragement and the right balance of challenge to help you with your personal growth. It feels warm, loving and expansive when you are in the presence of your soul mates. To attract a soul mate into your life to experience the Divine love relationship you are deserving of, takes courage, wisdom and know how. It begins with self-love and expands from there. How can I make sure my soul mate and I meet? You can also make it more likely by keeping an open mind and paying attention to the wonderful things your universe is always providing you, even when you don't think so. Keeping a gratitude journal is one thing you can do on a daily basis that will remind you of all you have to be grateful for. This sends a message to your universe to send you more of the same. Imagine how you would feel being with your soul mate, and focus your attention on that feeling. This is the powerful key to attracting what you want in your life. Relax. Enjoy. Smile. Be sociable. Be open to how life unfolds. Be ready for love! |
Copyright © 2014 by Maeve Crawford . All rights reserved in all media. Used with permission.
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Bonus Article
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In a quote I heard used by Oprah Winfrey in defining forgiveness, she says it is "giving up the hope that the past could have been any different". I like this definition, and so when referring to forgiveness, this is what I mean; giving up the hope that the past could have been any different. Part of healing is accepting responsibility. There might be some things from the past that you wish could be different; but when you think of something from the past that you wish could be different, you must also acknowledge the fact that if you were back then where you are right now mentally, emotionally, spiritually, self-aware, and present, then all you know as your past would be different; the good and the not so good. Can you live with that? This may bring up a lot of pain experienced from your previous relationships; maybe even your current relationship. You might have done or allowed yourself to experience some things you now wish you had not. But if the outcome happened to be a child, or brought you into wealth and fame, or provided you some special favors, you may not want that part to change or be any different. It all goes together. You can't pick and choose the good and the not so good parts to keep and discard. With that, now maybe you can look at moving forward. As you reflect, it's important to accept responsibility for not being present; for not being aware; for not being mentally, emotionally, and spiritually mature. |
Accept responsibility for not being responsible for what was put in your charge; in your care; your self. Accept responsibility for not knowing or understanding; for not seeking to know and understand what you didn't know and didn't understand; for not asking questions to clarify what you were thinking; for turning a deaf ear, a blind eye, or for being in denial of what was really happening. Forgive yourself and all those involved in the excuses you tell yourself about why things happened as they did. Don't give it any more energy. Just forgive yourself. This is mainly who this is all about; you. Some people get stuck in unforgiveness, not knowing that's where they are and why they can't seem to move forward, especially while looking for the "right" one. Here awareness is key. Once you are aware this is the reason you're not going anywhere, you must get to a place where you can say, "It happened", and work toward moving on from there. It's unhealthy to live in the space of "I wish" that had not happened; or "if only" that had not happened. In order to heal, accepting responsibility must take place. Here are some suggestions for helping you to move forward.
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Copyright © 2014 by Barbara A Williams. All rights reserved in all media. Used with permission.
For more information visit www.barbaraannwilliams.com |
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