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Relationship Coaching News
Decem
ber 2007

In this issue:



Editor- David Steele
Founder and CEO
Relationship Coaching Institute


Copyright 2007 by Relationship Coaching Institute. All rights reserved. Feel free to share with others as long as our contact information and authorship is included. U.S. Library of Congress ISSN#1530-3055.



Conscious Dating:
Finding the Love of Your Life in Today's World


Available at

www.ConsciousDating.com




F`ree!


Conscious Relationship
Tele-Seminar Series

www.ConsciousRelationshipSeminars.com

Conscious Dating
Tele-Seminar Series

www.ConsciousDatingSeminars.com

Conscious Relationship Podcast
www.ConsciousRelationshipPodcast.com

Conscious Relationship Article Bank
www.ConsciousRelationshipArticles.com




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Announcements


1 F'ree Training:  Introduction to Relationship Coaching Wednesday Dec 12
2 Conscious Mating Audio Programs New!
3 Advanced Conscious Dating Audio Programs New!
3 For the holidays- The Communication Map Order in time for the holidays!

F`REE TRAINING:  
Introduction to Relationship Coaching

Wednesday, December 12th
9:00am pacific/Noon eastern

Learn how to coach singles, couples, and develop a successful Relationship Coaching practice, taught by RCI founder David Steele and his teaching staff.

Introduction to Relationship Coaching is a 90-minute tele-training that covers:

How to Coach Singles

  • The Case for Relationship Coaching
  • Five Stages of Relationship Coaching
  • Top Ten Guidelines of Relationship Coaching
  • Introduction to our ground-breaking Conscious Dating coaching program for singles

How to Coach Couples

  • Important Facts about Couples
  • Benefits of Committed Relationships
  • Comparing Coaching and Therapy
  • Commitment: The Path to Relationship Happiness?
  • Coaching Committed vs. Pre-Committed Couples
  • Solvable vs. Unsolvable Relationship Problems

How to Build a Successful Relationship Coaching Practice
  • Seven Habits of Highly Successful Practitioners
  • Top Five Secrets for Building a Successful Practice
  • Top Five Tips for Marketing That Gets Results
  • And more!

Your registration includes practical information and materials you can use immediately in your practice.

To register (it's f`ree!) sign up here

Can't make our training date/times? This tele-training is recorded for those unable to attend live, and we also offer an ON-LINE VERSION

Please share with your colleagues!

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Announcing:
Conscious Mating Audio Programs

Is your client dating someone and wondering-
"Is this the right relationship for me?"

Our Conscious Mating Audio Programs provide detailed, comprehensive strategies for dating and mating, addressing all the relationship and decision-making challenges that arise when your client is in the pre-commitment stage of a relationship.

These audio programs are recorded from our live tele-seminars and include the MP3 audio file for playing on your computer, MP3 player (iPod or other), or burning onto a CD, AND a complete PDF transcript for following along and making notes.

Program #1- Is This the Right Relationship for Me? Introduction to the Pre-commitment Stage

Program #2- Am I Ready to Be a Couple?

Program #3- Finding Lasting Love by Experiencing Your Experience

Program #4- Should We Live Together?

Program #5- Dealing With Our Baggage

Program #6- Are We Compatible?

Program #7- Sharing Our Vision

Program #8- Deciding "Is This The One?"

Program #9- When We Must Say Goodbye

Check them out at www.ConsciousMatingAudio.com

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Advanced Conscious Dating Strategies

These programs provide advanced information, strategies, and tips to help you to help your single clients.

Each program includes the MP3 audio recording, complete written transcript, and Study Guide to follow along and take notes.

Program #1- Are You Ready for Love?

Program #2- Being The Chooser

Program #3- Ten Steps for Finding Your Soul Mate

Program #4- Conscious Dating: How to Connect to Your Life Vision

Program #5- Conscious Dating for Boomers: Finding Love After 50

Program #6- Scouting: Where to Find Your Soul Mate

Program #7- Advanced Strategies for Sorting, Screening, and Testing

Program #8- Conscious Internet Dating: Using Your Computer to Find Your Soul Mate

Program #9-Conscious Dating at a Distance: What to Do When You're Attracted to Someone 1200 Miles Away

Check them out at www.ConsciousDatingAudio.com

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Holiday Best Seller- The Communication Map

During the holidays we spend more time with family and are reminded about the importance of positive, effective communication. This must be the reason we've received so many orders for our Communication Map recently.

Simple and easy to understand

Learn and implement in less than an hour

Universal- works for all relationships and settings- work, home, business, family, parenting, couples, etc

Tested and proven by hundreds of graduates of Relationship Coaching Institute

Designed to quickly and effectively address interpersonal issues and problems to prevent and resolve conflict, The Communication Map can be learned by anyone in less than an hour.

The Communication Map is 8 1/2 x 11 inches, full-color, laminated for durability, and comes with a 44-minute audio CD tutorial.

View a sample here

       - Easily and intuitively understood

       - Jargon-free

       - Immediate results

       - Learn in one hour or less

       - Implement without professional help

Practical, effective, and affordable conflict resolution tool for personal and professional relationships

Makes great gifts!
Discounts for multiple copies
F`ree shipping!

For more information about The Communication Map visit www.thecommunicationmap.com

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Feature Article:
Proud to Be a Relationship Coach

by David Steele

For most of my life when asked "What do you do?" I've struggled with my answer because I've always done more than one thing:

Childhood: paperboy, lawn and yard maintenance, odd jobs (anything for a buck!)

Adolescence: busboy, dishwasher, waiter, cook, restaurant manager

Adulthood: student, intern, counselor, therapist, consultant, clinical supervisor, program director

Past Ten Years: coach, mentor, trainer, author, speaker, entrepreneur, CEO

I've longed for a simple answer to the "What do you do?" question such as "teacher," "engineer," "plumber," and just this year solved this problem- after all these years I've decided that I'm proud to be (and call myself) simply a "Relationship Coach."

I still do a lot of things- write, speak, train, mentor, build businesses, etc, but the common theme is my mission and calling to make a difference in the world of relationships.

As CEO of Relationship Coaching Institute I'm a Relationship Coach.

As author of "Conscious Dating" I'm a Relationship Coach.

As a professional speaker I'm a Relationship Coach.

As a mentor helping professionals build successful practices I'm still a Relationship Coach!

You get the idea.

As a "Marriage and Family Therapist" I thought I was making a strong statement about my mission to help people with their relationships, however the (correct) perception of MFTs is that they work primarily with individuals and treat clinical disorders (depression, anxiety, etc). If you're an MFT and disagree, simply look at the survey data available from your professional association.

Relationships are clearly among the top values and goals of every living member of our society. Nobody is happy, successful, and fulfilled without functional relationships. Achieving financial, spiritual, educational, professional, even personal goals do NOT result in happiness and fulfillment without close, supportive, positive, functional relationships.

Would you agree? Or am I just biased? :-)

A Relationship Coach is the only professional solely dedicated to this hugely important area of life that impacts all of us in all ways in everything we do. A lot of professionals do some form of relationship coaching, such as a marriage educator, MFT, counselor, life coach, psychologist, minister, etc, however their roles are often narrow (e.g. addiction counseling, teaching relationship classes, etc) or broad, yet there is only ONE professional that ONLY specializes in this MOST important area of life.

We live in a highly specialized society. Professionals, retail stores, trades people (car mechanics, contractors, etc) have specialties and niches. It is common to do more than one thing, however prospective clients and customers typically seek a specialist that they perceive has the knowledge and expertise to address their unique needs.

So after all these years I've finally embraced my identity as a Relationship Coach and from now on, no matter where I am or who you are, if you ask me "What do you do?" my answer will be "I'm a Relationship Coach!"

If you'd like more information about relationship coaching or becoming a relationship coach please join us for our complimentary Introduction to Relationship Coaching Tele-Training on December 12th, 9:00am pacific/Noon eastern. To register visit www.rcifreetraining.com

© 2007 Relationship Coaching Institute– All rights reserved.

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Invitations

Invitation #1
Please share this newsletter with a colleague.  There is a tremendous need for our services, and we need to work together. Relationship Coaching is in its infancy, and we must collaborate to build our market niche and position as a resource of wide appeal for anyone who wants a successful relationship.

Invitation #2
I invite you to listen to the following introductory recordings 24 hours a day at your convenience by visiting http://www.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com/audio/index.htm

  • Commitment: The Secret Ingredient to Relationship Happiness
  • Introduction to Relationship Coaching
  • Conscious Dating for Relationship Success
  • Conscious Mating: Is This the Right Relationship for Me?
  • And more!

Invitation #3
I invite you to join our f`ree Introduction to Relationship Coaching tele-training.

Invitation #4
To subscribe to this newsletter, our newsletter for SINGLES, our newsletter for COUPLES, or our GETTTING CLIENTS newsletter, visit
http://www.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com/forms/subscribe.htm

Invitation #5
To learn more about Relationship Coaching this article is a great place to start-
Relationship Coaching: New Hope for Singles and Couples

Invitation #6
To learn more about Relationship Coaching Institute check out-
RCI: More Than Relationship Coaching Training

How do you like our newsletter? Your feedback is welcome!  Until next time....

Best regards,
David Steele, MA, LMFT
Relationship Coach
CEO and Founder of Relationship Coaching Institute
David@RelationshipCoachingInstitute.com
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http://www.consciousrelationshipresources.com
http://www.ConsciousRelationshipSeminars.com
http://www.ConsciousRelationshipArticles.com
http://www.ConsciousRelationshipPodcast.com
http://www.ConsciousRelationshipSpeaker.com
http://www.ConsciousDating.com
http://www.ConsciousDating.org
http://www.ConsciousDatingSeminars.com
http://www.ConsciousDatingTeleClinic.com
http://www.consciousmating.com
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http://www.PartnersInLife.org
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Telephone:  888.268.4074

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Our Purpose
The purpose of this newsletter is to connect, support each other, inform, and build a strong community of coaches dedicated to helping people find fulfillment in their lives and relationships.

This monthly newsletter is written for the benefit of RCI Relationship Coaches, and is available to interested others. Feel free to share this with a colleague. Your submissions and feedback are welcome!

Our Mission
To provide the tools, information and support to help singles find the love of their life and the life that they love, and to help couples co-create fulfilling and lasting Life Partnerships.

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Links to Us

Relationship Coaching Institute
F`ree introductory training!
http://www.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com

BuildingYourIdealPractice.com
F`ree monthly tele-seminars!
http://www.buildingyouridealpractice.com

Conscious Dating for Singles
F`ree audio programs, e-programs, and more!
www.ConsciousDating.org

Partners in Life for Couples
F`ree audio programs, e-programs, and more!
www.PartnersInLife.org

F`ree Monthly Conscious Relationship Tele-Seminar Series
www.ConsciousRelationshipSeminars.com

F`ree Conscious Relationship Audio Programs
www.ConsciousRelationshipPodcast.com

F`ree Conscious Dating Tele-Seminar Series for Singles
www.ConsciousDatingSeminars.com

F`ree Conscious Dating Tele-Clinic for Singles
www.ConsciousDatingTeleclinic.com

Member of Relationship Coaching Network
F`ree resources for singles, couples and professionals
http://www.relationshipcoachingnetwork.org

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