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Relationship Coaching News
August 2002

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In this issue:


Announcements:

  1. Free Introductory Training begins Sept 2nd
  2. “All About RCI” Conference Call Aug 19th
  3. Welcome Tim Rhodes, New RCI President
  4. Enrollment Fee Increase- Join before Sept 1st!
  5. New e-book by David Steele- “How To Build Your Ideal Practice In 90 Days”
  6. Exclusive Partnership with EMOTIONALOGIC
  7. RCI Conference Calls

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1. FREE TRAINING BEGINS SEPT 2ND

Learn how to coach singles, couples, and develop a successful Relationship Coaching practice.

“Introduction To Relationship Coaching”- 3 one-hour teleclasses, Mondays, Sept 2, 9, 16; 9:00am pacific/Noon eastern.

Please share with your colleagues! To register, visit here.

NINE CEU’s are available for eligible mental health professionals participating in this training. To qualify you must contact us PRIOR to the start of the training- Jana@RelationshipCoachingInstitute.com
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2. “ALL ABOUT RCI” CONFERENCE CALL

This is a one-hour conference call for helping professionals interested in RCI trainings and programs. We detail our programs and membership benefits and answer your questions.
=> Monday, August 19th, 9am pacific/Noon eastern
To register, e-mail
Curious about RCI/RCI? Join us!
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3. WELCOME TIM RHODES, NEW RCI PRESIDENT

RelationshipCoachingInstitute is an international relationship coaching organization that serves singles and couples by marketing classes and coaching offered by RCI Coaches. The mission of RCI is to promote successful relationships by keeping RCI member coaches very busy!

We are very lucky to have Tim Rhodes as our new President! Tim joined us in May 1999, and was in one of our earliest professional trainings. His “buddy coach” was Laurie Cameron, our Director Of Singles Programs! Tim will report directly to RCI/RCI CEO David Steele.

Tim is an ICF certified coach who has spent the last eight years working with fast growing companies in the areas of management and leadership, funding, and marketing. Tim is also very close to his certification as an RCI Master Relationship Coach.

Before becoming a coach, Tim was an entrepreneur in the software industry involved in the management, sales and marketing aspects of four successful start-up companies with many Fortune 500 customers. He is living his vision near Boise, Idaho with his partner RoseMarie.

Tim is immensely qualified to lead RCI into a future as a prominent international relationship coaching organization, and we are very excited to have him on board!
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4. ENROLLMENT FEE INCREASE- JOIN BEFORE SEPT. 1ST!

Beginning Sept. 1st our enrollment fee will increase from $249.00 to $495.00. We are still 3X less expensive than our nearest competitor, but as costs increase, so must our fees.

To get the best deal, JOIN RCI NOW!
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5. NEW E-BOOK BY DAVID STEELE- “HOW TO BUILD YOUR IDEAL PRACTICE IN 90 DAYS”

This book can help you build the practice of your dreams with less time and money than you ever thought possible. Full of free and low-cost practice development resources.
· “Practical solutions that really work”
· “rich in content”
· “complete road map”
· “simple, yet powerful”
· “I’m working less, making more”
This brand new e-book has already collected an impressive list of testimonials. For info visit here.

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6. EXCLUSIVE PARTNERSHIP WITH EMOTIONALOGIC

We are entering an exclusive partnership with “EmotionaLogic,” a cutting-edge personal assessment that measures values, character, personality, and lifestyle preferences.

“More Than A Psychological Profile. A Complete Relationship Seminar In A Kit.”

EmotionaLogic is an outstanding tool for coaching individuals, singles, and couples. Check it out at http://www.EmotionaLogic.com
More coming soon!
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7. RCI COACH CONFERENCE CALLS

~August 6; Singles Coaching with Laurie Cameron
~August 13; Practice Development with Laurie Cameron
~August 20; Couples Coaching with Linda Marshall

Our conference calls are FREE to RCI Coaches, and fall on the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd Tuesday of each month, 2:00pm pacific/5pm eastern

NOTE: To accommodate RCI coaches in a wide variety of time zones, these conference calls will now be at 5pm eastern


Welcome New RCI Coaches!

The following coaches joined our ranks this past month:

David Clyman, New York, NY
Kathleen Marvelli, Norton, MA
Joan Menke, MA, Tiburon, CA
MaryAnn Mineghino, MA, Rancho Santa Margarita, CA
Kathleen Murphy, MA, Pompano, FL
Florette Schnelle, Alberta, Canada
Lionel Shockness, MSW, New York, NY

THANK YOU to John Becker (MD) for referring Joan Menke!

And… THANK YOU for telling your colleagues about RCI!


Relationship Coaching Technology:

ONE YEAR AND ONE-HALF INCH (My Personal Story Of Internet Dating)
By David Steele

I had been using an internet matchmaking service for about a year with disappointing results, meeting very nice, but incompatible women. I was really getting tired of it, and revised my profile to be more specific and demanding, hoping to scare off the time-wasters.

After a couple months of zero activity (I scared them off!) I was contacted by a woman who fit everything I was looking for. She had been having a similar experience, and only found me when she widened her search criterion to include someone a few years younger. She NEVER considered being with someone a year or two younger, and only thought about it after experiencing a few dead ends and having some time on her hands to search the database more thoroughly.

We were both amazed at how we both were seeking the same things and not finding anyone that fit what we were seeking. Turns out that my searches never found her because she is a HALF-INCH shorter than the minimum I used in my criterion.

So we had missed each other all this time by the margin of one year and a half-inch!

In addition, turns out we had met about six months earlier in a singles setting. I don't recall our meeting, but she does! At this writing Maggie and I have been together for almost two years, have entered a committed relationship, bought a house together and blended our families. She is a wonderful woman and the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am grateful for her being in my life and for deciding to consider dating a younger man!


Practice Tips:

TIME ZONE SAVVY
by David Steele

It is common for coaches to miss a teleclass or client appointment by confusing time zones. Recently, one of my clients missed an appointment with me due to time zone confusion, and as a coach who deals with time zones daily, I take responsibility for not making sure our times were coordinated!

This article is intended to provide you some basic information to navigate time zones effectively, including:

1. U.S. TIME ZONES
2. TIME ZONES AROUND THE WORLD
3. DAYLIGHT SAVINGS TIME
4. TIME ZONE RESOURCES

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1. U.S. TIME ZONES

The continental U.S. has 4 time zones, each one hour apart. Eastern time is the most commonly used reference. Eastern time is 3 hours ahead of Pacific as follows:

Noon Eastern
=11am Central
=10am Mountain
=9am Pacific
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2. TIME ZONES AROUND THE WORLD

Historically, the Royal Observatory in Greenwich (United Kingdom) was the time reference for the world, and is still considered the "prime" meridian from which the times zones originate, referred to as Greenwich Mean Time (GMT).

Since 1972, the universal reference time for world is Coordinated Universal Time (UTC) as measured by atomic clocks around the world.

There are 24 time zones in the world. Those east of GMT are later, west of GMT are earlier.

For example, Noon GMT=
2am in Hawaii
4am in Anchorage, Alaska
5am in San Francisco
6am in Denver
7am in Chicago
8am in New York
1pm in London
2pm in Amsterdam, Stockholm, and Madrid
3pm in Cairo and Israel
4pm in Moscow
8pm in Hong Kong and Singapore
10pm in Sydney, Australia

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3. DAYLIGHT SAVINGS TIME

Daylight Saving Time (DST) is also called "summer time". It is a method of advancing clocks in a global manner, in order to artificially expand the daylight hours. Not all countries of the world, or all areas of the US participate in DST.

DST in the USA:
-begins at 2 a.m. on the first Sunday of April
-ends at 2 a.m. on the last Sunday of October

DST in most of the countries of western Europe:
-begins at 1 a.m. GMT on the last Sunday of March and
-ends at 1 a.m. GMT on the last Sunday of October

In the US, DST is NOT observed in Hawaii, American Samoa, Guam, Puerto Rico, the Virgin Islands, the Eastern Time Zone portion of the State of Indiana, and by most of Arizona.

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4. TIME ZONE RESOURCES

When setting a time for a teleclass, client appointment, or conference call, unless you are sure all parties are local, ALWAYS SPECIFY TIME ZONE!

Here are two resources to help you to be "Time Zone Savvy":

TIMEZONECONVERTER.COM
http://www.timezoneconverter.com/
-Easily find the time anywhere in the world
-Create and print out a time zone reference card
-Currency converter
-Metric system converter
-Translator

WORLDTIMESERVER.COM
http://www.worldtimeserver.com/
-Easily find the time anywhere in the world
-Download FREE “Atomic Clock Sync” Program to synchronize your computer's time with the exact current time with a click of your mouse. I use it and recommend it!


Invitations:

  • I invite you to share your announcements, wins, coaching or practice tips with the rest of us. Be visible! Let's connect! Send them to me at
  • I invite you to share this newsletter with a colleague. There is a tremendous need for our services, and we need to work together. Relationship Coaching is in its infancy, and we must collaborate to build our market niche and position as a resource of wide appeal for anyone who wants a successful relationship.
  • I invite you to listen to the following introductory recordings 24 hours a day at your convenience online. (some are also available by telephone):
    • Introduction to Relationship Coaching
    • Finding The Love Of Your Life AND The Life That You Love
    • Conscious Dating For Relationship Success
    • All About RCI
    • Practice Building Intensive (sample conference call)
    • And more!
  • I invite you to get the support you need to be successful in your practice. We are available for information, training, ideas, mentor coaching, etc.
  • If you are a coach or therapist who received this from a colleague, I invite you to visit our web site and contact us for information on joining us and becoming a RelationshipCoachingInstitute Relationship Coach. Ask about getting a free copy of our introductory audiotape, and about our free teleclasses.
  • To subscribe to this newsletter, our newsletter for SINGLES, or our newsletter for COUPLES, see this page.
  • For a description of RCI relationship coaching trainings, schedule, and enrollment info, visit http://www.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com

How do you like our newsletter?
Your feedback is welcome! Until next time....
Best regards,
David Steele, MA, LMFT
Relationship Coach
CEO and Founder of RelationshipCoachingInstitute/Relationship Coaching Institute

http://www.RelationshipCoachingInstitute.com
http://www.ConsciousDating.com
www.RelationshipCoachingInstitute.com
http://www.David.Steele.name
408-261-3332


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